Nowadays a person is popular by the number of his or her followers ; nowadays people are racing over subscribers , over likes ... In a lot of cases ( and I assure you that I went through this too ) a person may feel depressed just because s/he does not have subscribers as much as he wants to, s/he would say why people are not interested in my posts ; Am I that bad looking person or have I said something wrong !... Now people share the mentality of the majority , that is to say they follow the trend ( in some cases some of them transform themselves into other persons ; mentally they are not expressing themselves ; they are not asking "what do I love ; how do I want to look ; what kind of passion do I have ; what do I want to be one day ?" On the contrary they look for someone who is popular , who the majority of the peolple around the world likes him ; and they try to immitate his or her thoughts , his or her appearance (style of their clothes , their hair , the food they eat , their differnt activities , etc ,...) ; In a lot of cases the goal of that immitator tranforms into reality , I mean the number of subscribers that s/he wants , having the attention of the world , In a way being noticeable by others ; are somethings that helps them with gaining some confidence and with thinking that even though that is not the real me , the is not who really I am , as long as others like what they see and what they read than it's okk to not be myself , it's okk . But for whose sake are you doing this , Is being popular , immitating others is supposed to be set as a goal ! I am not against being popular , I myself I do think of the number of people that may see my posts , whether they like what i write or not , that is a pretty much normal thing , But what I do really hate is when you forget who you really are , what you really like , ... I mean it's okk to be different . No actually it is a great thing to be special . Be who you are , always look for yor inner self , It's okk to have an inner conflict between you and yourself sometimes , Be who you are again , Love yourself , Say to the world this is the real me , I love having friends but I don't like hanging out a lot , I love to have some "me" time , I love it when I still act like a child although I am actually an adult ; Being childish does not mean you're unmature , Do not care about what others could say about you , as long as you're convinced with the fact that what you do is the right thing ; even if it's not , that's okk ; we were born to make mistakes you know , and to learn from them ...
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