Satisfied at least ... HAPPY indeed ...

     Life . we all want to live . Not only breathe and live in melancholy But actually live Happily . How can we achieve that ! Happiness !
Through lots of cases you can't do what can make you happy in fear of the prejudices of others . Others may be your family , your parents , your lover ...
What can you do then !
Live for them !
I mean , just do what they want from you or expect you to do and as a result you'll make them happy for you But the PROBLEM is that you will never be happy for yourself . You'll live for others ! At least for those you love and can't live without Right!!
So the solution ?!!!
Well they told me that I can lie and do whatever I want to reach HAPPINESS without telling those I love that I will be doing a certain thing for a mere reason ; for that they won't stop me from doing what I want !(Because they think that what I'll do is wrong or , they haven't been used to find some one in the family doing that thing you know what I mean ! DO the unusual according to your family)

I told them "But if I won't be able to share what I do best ;that makes me happy , makes me feel alive and most importantly HAPPY ; with those I love , With whom should I celebrate those happy moments of mine !" . I know that I can do that just by myself . I know that . But I'll be even HAPPIER if I share my happiest moments , activities , accomplishments with my beloved ones .
So what can I do ! Well I've tried to persuade them , to change their minds about certain thoughts and values , Those that they already do not know were they came from , Because they themselves they've inherited them from their parents , and their parents from their grand parents and the list goes on . 
Instead of living for themselves , they live for others , afraid to be judged by others , criticized by others and sometimes even ,well in the worst conditions, kicked out by others , stepped upon by others ! 
I've been through such a condition lately . But I've tried my best with the support of my two best friends to do that only thing that makes me feel happy , that makes me enjoy life . Although I was very nervous , very afraid of being rejected and even criticized But as I told you Luckily I was courageous enough to step out of my comfort zone and to speak (and sing Adele's song REMEDY ) in public (in front of my teachers and classmates and friends ).
Sometimes yes it would be better if you just live for yourself and do what makes you HAPPY . YOU can even lie sometimes but for a reasonable purpose that won't damage you in any case , on the contrary that reason should be powerful . So powerful that it will make you feel soo free soo good about yourself .. HAPPY .
Opportunities . You should catch them , not if you can . Put in your mind that you certainly can . You can catch them .Those opportunities are rare , look for them , those that will help you to reach HAPPINESS.

I want you to put yourself up first . Live for yourself . HAPPINESS . DO your best to reach it .

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